I believe our mental health issues are a reflection of our relationship with the one and only true God.

He made us for peace. The enemy prefers that we stress out, leave in fear, and abuse our selves with our extreme behaviors.

However, there is assistance when we cannot deal with the challenges of life. There are hotline numbers, community mental health centers, private mental health professionals, and church counselors.

I also, offer my services to the world community.

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MY PHILOSOPHICAL PERSPECTIVE In the beginning there was suppose to be emotional contact between parent and child. The absence of appropriate, nurturing, and guiding emotional interaction left many with hang-ups and limitations.

Many grew up in abusive homes. These people can suffer from all mental issues related to Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Which can include emotional repression, nightmares, obsession with the abuse, denial, anger, violence, and an inability to function socially.

Many are victims of their own brain chemistry. Absence or abundance of neurotransmitters compels people to certain behaviors.

I would say the difference between people who harm them selves and people who do not is a failure to accept reality.

We all experience hardship and depending at which level you are (no emotional contact, abusive background, or brain chemistry complications) you response is going to be unique.

People who are frustrated that life is not the beautiful dream they wanted, in my opinion, have a higher propensity to harm themselves. However, life is what life. I have learned through experience if life hands you lemons you put it in your guacamole. I bet you thought I was going to say something different.

In addition, what life has thought you is also going to influence your spirit and your behavior. I am big proponent of cognitive behavior perspectives.

The moral of the message is that we all have good philosophical systems to help us meet the challenges of life. Some times, however, even we run out of answers.