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Keep going foward
Published on March 3, 2008 By jesseledesma In Life

Where in this crazy world are you going to find some one to tell you what you need to hear?

We know people talk. Every day there are people on TV, Radio, and print telling everyon what they think.  However, are these people getting you the message you need to hear?

Every single person wants some one to love, peace, goals, achievement, and purpose.  Many people do alright, without needing coaching.

Some people however, have only receved abuse from life.  They are tense and afraid.

Well you do not have to be tense or afraid.  Those people who put fear in you can only continue to harm you if you let them.

Listen to your self, talk your self up, love your self, be your best friend, and invest in you.

Is it hard? Heck yeah it is hard.  The hardest thing to do in this modern life is to be decent person who is working at having a decent life. It's like the whole world wants you to fail.

The trick is to not be your own worst enemy.  Do relaxation excercises so you wont let your mood take control of you.  Restructure your thoughts from the negative to the positive.  Change your focus from them to you.  Be real about what needs to change and go about change reasonably. 

In addition, have drive.  You cannot live without drive.  This means you do not give up and you do not knock your self down.

Set reasonable goals and the plan necessary to achieve these goals.

Keep in mind you are not a machine and you need initmacy.  However, do not let your love life abuse you. Know what you want and demand of your self that you get it.

Do not make the mistakes of drugs, alcohol, and pregnancy.  Throw all your credit cards in the garbage.  Pay everybody off and do not borrow ever again.

Pursue education with patience. Love your self.  Love your life.  Keep going foward.


Comments
on Mar 03, 2008

That's actually reasonably sane.  Moment of clarity, perhaps?

~Zoo

on Mar 03, 2008

In addition, have drive.  You cannot live without drive.  This means you do not give up and you do not knock your self down.

That is a great line.