Know what you want and go for it.
There come a time when you have stop thinking about life and start living life.
It is a tragedy to think of how many people are spending their lives wishing there was some one they could share their lives with.
Now there are issues for men and issues for women when talking about taking steps to be in a relationship.
A man has to pursue, most of the time. These means he has to have courage to over come his fear of rejection and being laughed at.
How does a shy man over come his disease? Well you have to start talking to women. Then you make friends. Then you ask one of your women friends, who you sense an attraction to and who you sense may be attracted to you, out on a date.
You date, have sex, she leaves you, and the cycle starts all over again.
Now this requires practices. Some women are standoffish. Some are more afraid of being asked out than you are of asking then out. Either way the way to get good at asking women out is to ask women out.
I go by the rule of a hundred. You will have to ask out a hundred to get one to accept you. See, so rejection is part of the process.
The secret is to not take it personal. You will not accomplish much in life if people’s opinions of you traumatize you.
Okay, I should have started with the first thing first. Being in any relationship will cost money. Make sure you are where you want to be financially in life before you start to date.
Who knows you just might get a woman and soon as you get them, pregnant you will never see your wallet again; that is if they do no confiscate it from you on your first meeting.
Oh, and get over your lumpy-lumpy self. Exercise, eat right, dress right, and develop a pleasant personality. No woman wants a slob.
The next thing is to know what women want. From my “confiscate your wallet” comment, you may think that women only need men for their money. Well some women do only want men for what they can give them.
The reality is that there are many types of women. The only one way I know to finds out what a particular women wants is to talk to her.
Then of course you have to know what kind of woman you want. I am a firm believer that a man should know what physical type, educational type, career, type, spiritual type, intimacy type, and sexual activity type of woman he wants. Actually, the same applies for a woman.
One of the reasons people fail in relationships, in my opinion, is that they do not work at knowing what kind of mate they want before they get in a relationship. Nothing is worse than ordering an ostrich burger and then realizing you hate ostrich meat.
Therfore, from this blog entry you should of got that in order to get what you want you have to know what you want and you have to pursue it.