Work does suck. It is suppose to suck. If it did not suck, you would want to spend more time at work then at home.
Another point is that your employer is not to blame for everything that went wrong in your life. They have given you a job and it is up to you to use it to accomplish some personal goals.
I think that many are missing half of the employment equation. They know they have to work, but they do not know the value of work.
When you work you earn and you can use what you earn to purchase a certain desirable life.
Of course, many people do not know what turns them on. To many think that abusing substances is living. That is a very different discussion.
I have said before we are our own worst enemy. We burry our heads in the sand refusing to accept our reality and be in charge of our lives and then we want to blame everyone else when things go wrong.
Ask me what I think the major problem with people is and I will tell you it is that they are trying to live according to messages they see in media. T.V. and movies reflect a very superficial look at life.
In order to succeed in life, I say a person has to have a deep understanding of life, deep understanding of themselves, and willingness to be involved in life.
My sweet dear friend once told me life is out there. She is right. Life is not in a chat room or in a living room with no one else around.
This leads me to my second focus of this essay. If you are not thinking about marriage, monogyny, fidelity, and kids you are going to suffer.
By now people in their mid 30’s have had at least seven lovers and they have failed miserable in all of those relationships, in my opinion.
Any body wants to guess why they failed so badly. I suggest we fail because we do not want to look at our lives for what they really are and look at our selves for who we really are in life.
We may not admit it, but we want to be loved and feel secure in that relationship. The problem is that most of the people we date are not worth the lint in Hugo Chavez’ belly button.
Therefore, what do you do with immature people who cannot commit? You have all the sex you can with them you can have and then you move on. Just kidding.
You actually evaluate their behavior over a certain amount of time, which you are celibate at the time.
Women a man who is not gainfully employed, with a life vision, and an adult perspective is not a good catch. In addition, you women will never change a man.
See men are not dolls you can dress as you see fit. Two mature people with goals and a healthy respect for life contribute to successful marriages.
Moreover, my secret to a happy marriage is “shag plenty and shag often”. Well now that I have your attention you have to live and enjoyable life. Given in to the rut of the day drains the human spirit.
Life should be a pleasurable endeavor. We need rest and relaxation, social interaction, intimacy, love, humor, validation, accomplishment, and many other life elements that make life enjoyable.