So you have some reservations about your ability to get some ones attention.

Well the problem is that you have not had a good look at yourself in the mirror.

Now, having read the last statement may make you want to plan my untimely death. However, the reality is that all romantic quests begin with a thorough introspection.

You should be looking for all your personal qualities that turn people off.

In addition, regardless of popular opinion that gives the impression that looks do not matter, Looks do matter.

Therefore, evaluate your weight, attire, and hairstyle. Men shaggy beards and ponytails are rather unattractive.

Wait, hold your criticism, and ask yourself, “would you date some one with a shaggy beard and rough coarse long hair?”

Well there you are.

Do not worry though. Women have a lot to take care of also.

In fact all of us have a lot to take care of. We are unhappy, miserable, people hiding out, and compensating for out misery with food.

We really should stop this. We can. All we have to do is be happy and grateful for what we got.

Then maybe we will stop overeating, change our attitude, and start becoming the person we really are, not a troll, looking at the world through the corner of a curtain judging his or her neighbor.

Hence, who do you want a sloppy wet kiss from; healthy person or a troll?

Yes these are your only two options.

Therefore, before you start working at getting some one to swap spit with make sure your first impression is your best impression.

Your natural self is always your best self. In addition, with this great world of information it should be easy to access and use health information.